{"id":801,"date":"2015-02-25T15:37:37","date_gmt":"2015-02-25T15:37:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.klauskpsichologo.lt\/?p=801"},"modified":"2026-09-02T07:41:49","modified_gmt":"2026-09-02T07:41:49","slug":"prieraisusis-zaidimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.klauskpsichologo.lt\/en\/prieraisusis-zaidimas\/","title":{"rendered":"Prierai\u0161usis \u017eaidimas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Prierai\u0161usis \u017eaidimas: kai aukl\u0117jimas ir disciplina atrodo visai kitaip<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yra vienas terminas, kur\u012f vartoju labai da\u017enai, ir manau, metas j\u012f pristatyti atskirai \u2013 prierai\u0161usis \u017eaidimas (angl. Attachment Play). Tai s\u0105voka, kuri\u0105 savo knygoje suk\u016br\u0117 psicholog\u0117 dr. Aletha Solter, ir ji yra viena i\u0161 Aware Parenting filosofijos dali\u0173. Trumpai tariant \u2013 tai b\u016bdas patirti aukl\u0117jim\u0105 ir disciplin\u0105 kitaip. Be apdovanojim\u0173. Be bausmi\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kod\u0117l \u201ekitaip\u201c<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dauguma m\u016bs\u0173 u\u017eaugome su logika: jei vaikas elgiasi netinkamai, reikia arba j\u012f sudrausti, arba ka\u017eko atsisakyti, kad i\u0161mokt\u0173. Prierai\u0161usis \u017eaidimas si\u016blo kit\u0105 krypt\u012f \u2013 \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti giliau. Ne slopinti simptom\u0105 (t\u0105 \u201enepaken\u010diam\u0105\u201c elges\u012f), o ie\u0161koti, kas j\u012f sukelia. Da\u017eniausiai u\u017e atkaklaus atsisakymo, isterijos ar agresijos slypi nepatenkintas poreikis, sukaupta \u012ftampa ar baim\u0117, kurios vaikas dar nemoka i\u0161reik\u0161ti \u017eod\u017eiais. Ir \u010dia \u012f pagalb\u0105 ateina \u017eaidimas \u2013 ne kaip pramoga, o kaip rimtas \u012frankis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kaip tai veikia<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A. Solter apra\u0161o devynias skirtingas \u017eaidimo formas, kurios padeda stiprinti ry\u0161\u012f su vaiku, spr\u0119sti elgesio sunkumus ir pad\u0117ti vaikui atsigauti po sunki\u0173 i\u0161gyvenim\u0173. Kai kurios i\u0161 j\u0173 \u2013 tai judr\u016bs, juok\u0105 keliantys \u017eaidimai, kurie i\u0161laisvina sukaupt\u0105 \u012ftamp\u0105; kitos \u2013 ramesn\u0117s, kuriose vaikas jau\u010diasi i\u0161girstas ir saugus. Bendra visoms \u2013 jos vyksta mylin\u010dio ry\u0161io kontekste, \u017eaismingai, be spaudimo ir be vertinimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>K\u0105 tai realiai duoda \u0161eimai<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Su \u0161iuo po\u017ei\u016briu \u012f t\u0117vyst\u0119 tampa \u012fmanoma:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>pasiekti daugiau bendradarbiavimo, o ne galios kov\u0173<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>pad\u0117ti vaikams i\u0161gyventi baimes ir nerim\u0105 kelian\u010dias situacijas<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>i\u0161spr\u0119sti kasdien\u0117s rutinos sunkumus (pvz., nam\u0173 darb\u0173 ar \u0117jimo miegoti dramas)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>suma\u017einti agresyv\u0173 elges\u012f ir var\u017eym\u0105si tarp broli\u0173 ir seser\u0173<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>sustiprinti ry\u0161\u012f su savo vaiku ar vaikais<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>pagaliau \u0161eimoje tur\u0117ti daugiau d\u017eiaugsmo ir juoko akimirk\u0173<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Man asmeni\u0161kai \u0161is po\u017ei\u016bris artimas tod\u0117l, kad jis nereikalauja tapti \u201etobulu\u201c t\u0117vu ar mama \u2013 reikia tik vieno: pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti \u012f vaiko elges\u012f kaip \u012f kalb\u0105, o ne kaip \u012f problem\u0105, kuri\u0105 reikia kuo grei\u010diau u\u017egesinti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esu psicholog\u0117 R\u016bta Navick\u0117. 5,0 \u2b50\ufe0f i\u0161 148 \u012fvertinim\u0173 (<a href=\"https:\/\/pensight.com\/x\/ruta\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/pensight.com\/x\/ruta\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Pensight<\/a>). 10+ met\u0173 praktikos, Lietuvos traum\u0173 psichologijos asociacijos ir Lietuvos EMDR asociacijos nar\u0117. 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